Decision : Contest of Will and Fear

A storm is gathering around the battlefield(Human mind) . Winner gets to decide the fate of the host(human). Both opponents are getting ready for the final round. Will wants the host to have a firm believe and to do good whereas fear wants to plant doubts and sabotage host’s trust and confidence . Fear has assembled an army of many small fears ,it wants to scare the host.If fear wins , its venom will paralyze the host .Host will not be able to make any decisions. Will knows what fear does to people . It has heard horrible stories about the fate of fear’s victim.The longer this battle will go on the more painful it will be for the host .

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Wait is over and the battle begins. Fear has struck hard , Will has prepared for an honest fight but fear has no rules and integrity, it is ruled by darkness .Will will not accept defeat so easily , it is known for its perseverance and conviction . Time is running out and the host is exhausted , he wants this to end as soon as possible . There can only be one winner. That’s the story of how a decision is made.

Host = Human

Battlefield= Human Mind

“Stop Overthinking ” Take it easy ,Its your mind not a pressure cooker :p

“Stop Overthinking ”
Take it easy ,Its your mind not a pressure cooker :p

I have this problem of overthinking and over analyzing any situation . The irony of my life is people call me ‘ calm and quiet ‘ but they don’t know the real ME . Yes , my exterior is that of a calm and ordinary person  . People dont notice me at first .They think me incapable of understanding emotions  but  they do not know that  whenever any topic is discussed or any question is asked  , Istart thinking on it I may look calm from outside but inside my brain , is a war going on . Sometimes I feel like 2 or more people are debating in my mind given counter agruments to one another and trying to reach the best answer or the best solution or  the best statement that should be said in that situation.

people are either shy or introvert ( as most of the introverts and psycologist have proved that shyness and introversion are not the same thing ) , I m both . I am a perfectionalist (who wants to be the best to do the best) by actions and a dreamer( who want to learn from her mistakes) by heart .

I believe the most precious gift of God is people who are around us yet at the same time I do believe that those people can also be the most dangerous ones .

well its kinda wierd …

why so serious ?

Most of the people must have heard this famous dialogue of Joker . Actually this just flashed in my mind when i decided to write about having fun and happiness in our lives . I have observed , heard and read that man has become very mechanical today . Time for family life , for people , for creating true happiness has shrunk even people do not have time for themselves.We are just running after the illusion of perfectionism.

Today’s human being is more of a robot . Many factors have contributed to this transformation but even all these changes do not have the power to make us less human .Its our own perception of what we want from life and our own willingness that has cause this change . The effect of this is that humans of this age are the most stressful people with so many diseases and other problems.Main dilemma is  now we demand too much , we have a lot of expectations , we are hasty, impatient and very judgmental  . A lot of innovations and progress have been made . Now we do have many facilities and have ease of doing things but during this journey we have lost something . We have lost our sense of humor , our ability to make light of things , our patience, our ability to enjoy small things & gestures , and most importantly we have ceased to be human i.e to act , think and feel like humans . Our actions , thinking and feelings have become very calculated. what I believe is all of us need some time to feel happy & relax , we need  to own ourselves . If we are gonna wait that right now we are too busy but we will have time later in life, believe me  it won’t work . All I am saying is yes seriousness and goal orientation is important but these are not all that matters .

This blog is an effort to make people’s mood light. All people do make mistakes and we should and must learn from our mistake but at the same time we should not take it too hard on ourselves rather we must learn to accept and laugh on our mistakes . All i am saying is by sharing our mistake and stupidity on our part or any incident or event which do not happened the way it should have happened, we can feel free and light again because it is basic human nature . We should not let shame control our lives .As Brene Brown has written in her book “The Gifts of Imperfection” that” Shame loves secrecy” . So lets take a step to fight with this shame of ours which we feel on our past mistakes . Lets share , laugh and learn from our mistake and be human again !!!!!!