WAYS TO HIDE TEARS

Some people cry a lot . “Crying ” is mostly considered a sign of weakness  by others . We sensitive and emotional people  try to hide ourselves when we are crying so that nobody can judge us .

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If you cant stop or control your tears then the next best option is to hide them . This is how our thinking process works . It’s a way of protecting ourselves . So I am going to share some of the methods. All these methods are highly effective .But before you read any further I must warn you , if you get too good at hiding your tears and acting to appear normal , nobody will know the real “YOU”. People see what we show them if you hide all your emotions and do not share them with anyone then people will perceive you incapable of feeling any emotions.

Method 1 : Use Washroom/ Restroom

It is the most effective way. You will get some time alone . Second advantage is access to water ,  you can quickly wash your face and remove all traces of tears easily. Nobody will get suspicious because going to washroom/restroom is quite normal .

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Method 2 : Pretend to Sleep

This method does not work all the time .It is only effective when you are at home and the weather is cold enough to use a blanket . Put blanket on your face and pretend to sleep . It will only work if you do not make any noise while crying.

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Method 3 : Hide behind books

Use your study room . Usually people do not disturb during reading . Books provide a good cover to hide your weeping face.

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If you donot want other people to know that you were crying ,you need to work on three areas as that can really give you away.

1. Eye : Your eyes will give you away . If you have been crying for a long time your eyes will be red . You will need cool water to wash them.
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2. Your voice : Beware crying makes your voice shaky . Avoid talking after crying .

3.Runny nose: Sometimes crying without making any noise results in a runny nose .This is another sign to identify a crying person .
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* All the pictures are taken from google images .

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10 thoughts on “WAYS TO HIDE TEARS

  1. When people are in my office, are crying, and feel self-conscious about that when they need to leave, I tell them that others really can’t tell if they’ve been crying. It could be a cold, allergies, an eye irritation, all sorts of things. Let those tears out! Thanks for the great post.

  2. MK, Please, forgive my intrusion. Your messages of hope when one faces the challenges of life has touched my heart and I wanted to recognize you for your message on my blog with a nomination for the Brave Heart award. If you would like to accept the nomination or simply read my post about Brave Hearts, you can go to the link below for more information. You give everyone that hurts an inspiration to heal through your positive words so elegantly revealed. -Kindest Regards, Daniel

    http://dwhinson56.wordpress.com/2014/05/23/the-brave-hearts/

    • You are intruding at all . I am really honored that you take time to read my posts . I am really thankful for your kind words they mean a lot to me , and for the nomination . Its my first ever nomination (hehe so I am very excited ) i don’t know much about these awards will definitely read about it from your link .

      • I am pleased you accept 🙂 There is no time limit, constraints, penalties or gotcha’s. The beauty of these awards is the process of spreading the Brave Heart message. It encompasses the struggles to return to a normal life after some significant injury of abuse. This can only happen through a return to a positive environment which you create so nicely here on your blog. Please have fun and make it your own with your own message to others.

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